Showing posts with label God. Show all posts
Showing posts with label God. Show all posts

Wednesday, 9 July 2014

The Big "C"

I’ve heard it said a remarkable number of times even in the last few days that you don’t have to go to church to be Christian; that to be “spiritual” is not to be “religious” or aligned with a religion. People tell me they believe in God and explain that they have some notion of a higher power, but they don’t feel the need to worship. I’m told by them that they pray, especially when times get tough and maybe sometimes to thank God, but not often. There is a general belief in an afterlife (I always ask this in funeral meetings to know where I stand), though the pressing materialism of this temporal world gets in the way of thinking too much about it. While I know what is being said in all these cases, I cannot agree with it anymore. Faith is personal, yes, but faith in a gracious, unconditionally loving God requires a big response, not a mediocre take-it-or-leave it attitude. It demands a commitment. Now I’ve said it, the big “C”, commitment, so lacking in the disposable, easy-come easy-go world today.

The question is what is that commitment? Initially coming to faith or growing further in faith is an individual choice, but it is not a path one can walk alone. Rarely do people realise their faith without the guidance of another person or other people empowered by the Holy Spirit. Nurturing and fostering the sparks of faith is much easier if one enjoys regular fellowship, prayer and Bible reading with other believers – not necessarily more mature Christians, as we all know “out of the mouths of babes…” Isolated the tiny embers can so easily grow cold, unless they are drawn together and fanned into life. This is the big “C”, commitment to each other, a promise to love and support each other in faith.

Moreover, we all have our God-given skills, gifts and talents, but none of us is really an expert of all, nor can we or should we do all. We need each other like a body has many parts, which work to make up the whole organism. Christians together form the complete Body of Christ here on earth now. We are his eyes, hands and his feet, every cell of his body. Of course, this image is not original. St Paul wrote eloquently in 1 Corinthians 12 about it. Being part of a body requires us all to pull our weight; we need each other and God needs all of us.

For us today I feel we need especially to share in the Body of Christ in Communion for two good reasons. Firstly, as a Eucharist or Thanksgiving in response to all he gives us, not the least his gracious love shown in Jesus’ sacrifice remembered in the service, but also in sheer awe at this wonderful creation (ah, yes, I crave silence in worship). Secondly, because by receiving the consecrated bread we sacramentally become the Body of Christ full of his Holy Spirit, empowered to live and work to his glory, genuinely inspired. All this requires the big “C”, commitment to worship – regular, weekly worship focussing on Holy Communion with other Christians as part of the church, the Body of Christ. Corporate religion is the only way by definition; it is Christ incarnate in the world.


Accepting that mainstream religious organisations have not always got it right (and for that we must repent), without them our spiritual platitudes about belief in God and saying our occasional prayers are hollow. You cannot be a Christian and not go to church as often as you can. 

Saturday, 15 February 2014

Love is All You Need

I wrote this for our local Link magazine (Feb 2014)...I felt it was worth sharing:
“All you need is love” sang The Beatles all those years ago. “Love is all around” was another famous love song. There are many, many love songs in all genres and when February comes round each year the shops are full of expensive cards bearing slogans and poems of variable quality about undying love. So what is love? It is certainly big business.
I love fish and chips and I love my wife; I also love rock music and I love my family, my daughters and grandchildren; I love rugby and I love God (a requirement of the job); I love my cats, I love to swim in the sea and I can say to someone that I love their hairstyle. Confusing, isn’t it, when you think about it. We use the word “love” so widely and so loosely in English and sometimes very casually. The Greeks had at least four different words for which we use the single word love, but for details of those perhaps you’d better ask Mary Clements. It’s a good game to try to name as many synonyms for love as you can. Here’s a few to start you off: affection, strong attraction, affinity, fondness, devotion, yearning, taste for…see how many more words you can think of and then group them as appropriate for the phrases I used above.
Unfortunately, the casual use of the word has also reduced its meaning even in the context of physical relationships between couples. There is an increasing confusion between the use of the word “love” and the word “lust” and I believe this has contributed towards the more permissive attitudes to sex prevalent in society and the breakdown of family life. “Making love” is a commonly overused phrase and sexual union has become a simple token of a mere shallow attraction or passing affinity for someone, rather than the ultimate expression of a deeper spiritual love between lifelong soul-mates. How sad!


But conversely, at its best, love is something truly wonderful and other-worldly. The most commonly chosen Bible passage at weddings is the famous passage in chapter 13 of St Paul’s First Letter to the Corinthians. This was actually not written about human physical love, but the definitive love of God. The Greek word used in this chapter is “agape”, which is a word that refers in a spiritual sense to a true unconditional love. It is wholly appropriate to read at church weddings, because it raises marriage in the sight of God above a human or merely legal partnership. In many places in the New Testament this same word is the one used to describe sacrificial and spiritual love, whether the love given is returned or not. Absolute love is rare is human terms; it requires pain and endurance and all the attributes named in St Paul’s letter. It is, however, the very love God has for each and every one of us – you and me – unreserved, unconditional, sacrificial love shown through Jesus. For that great gift surely we must praise and worship God each day of our lives.